Relationship problems come in two sizes: problems starting one, and problems maintaining one.

Problems starting one are connected with shyness, lack of personal or sexual confidence, difficulties with the dating process or difficulties getting on with a partner once all the other issues are dealt with.

Which is the same thing as problem two: maintaining a relationship, which is what this page is about.

The issues that get in the way of a relationship becoming or continuing to be successful are: difficulties in empathising with another person, difficulties in reaching working compromises with another person, problems dealing with the inevitable changes that take place within relationship: external circumstances, you changing, the other person changing, fetish or kink or sexuality issues raising their head, decline in hormones affecting your dynamics, lack of fidelity: yours or hers.

All tricky issues, but something most couples face at one time or another. With coaching and the chance to talk and examine the issues, the best solution can be found. It may mean putting up with a sexless stand-off after all, and splitting up may be a better option once the fear of looking at it is conquered. But I would hope that a more positive and practical solution can be found to bring about a happy and functional partnership. Often, it can.